I can hear the whines — "But it's BAD to do these things without consent!" No fucking kidding. It's bad to conduct medical experiments on people with… - Laura Antoniou

What goes on when people overfetishize safety is that they're relapsing into that old frame of mind that what we're doing is BAD.

Fantasies aren't reality, I know, I know, I know. Except when they are. Except when you make them into reality.

What is happening to my sexuality?
It's cold, it's pasionless, and what's worse, it's dull.
John Preston was right. SM has become a nice, sweet alternative to heavy petting, and the leaders of this SM "community" want us to be the Elks or some other animal-named civics association, gathering to sell expensive clothing and raffle tickets, congratulating ourselves on how nice we are.