As long as society tells men to be the salespersons of sex, it is sexist for society to put only men in jail if they sell well. We don’t put other sa… - Warren Farrell

The murder-suicide combination of school and other mass shootings is largely young white boys’ way of driving off the cliff at the end of mental health’s tortuous road.

The reporting of depression is often associated with the dependency of women on men. But it is dependency on men successful enough to allow a woman the time to think about more than survival. Which is why, when we think about women who report depression, we think of middle-class women, not working-class women. The working-class woman is too worried about survival to report depression. Depression is a diagnosis that tends to increase among those with the luxury of worrying about something other than survival. The more a person is in Stage II, the more that person can afford to focus on depression.

But a happy marriage is less about money, children, or lack of sex than about how we communicate about money, children, or lack of sex.