בני אבשלום בני בני אבשלום מי יתן מותי אני תחתיך אבשלום בני בני - David Allen

When "this isn't right" changes to "this isn't optimal" in your vocabulary, you've moved up the food chain.

Most people feel best about their work the week before they go on vacation, but it’s not because of the vacation itself. What do you do the last week before you leave on a big trip? You clean up, close up, clarify, organize, and renegotiate all your agreements with yourself and others. You do this so you can relax and be present on the beach, on the golf course, or on the slopes, with nothing else on your mind. I suggest you do this weekly instead of yearly, so you can bring this kind of “being present” to your everyday life.

It does not take much strength to do things, but it requires a great deal of strength to decide what to do. — Elbert Hubbard