Now produce your explanation and pray make it improbable. - Oscar Wilde

If one doesn't talk about a thing, it has never happened. It is simply expression that gives reality to things.

Lady Windermere: Windermere and I married for love.

Duchess of Berwick: Yes, we begin like that. It was only Berwick's brutal and incessant threats of suicide that made me accept him at all, and before the year was out, he was running after all kinds of petticoats, every colour, every shape, every material.

He to whom the present is the only thing that is present, knows nothing of the age in which he lives.