The person who tells the best story rules their corner of the world. - James Clear

Mastery requires patience. The San Antonio Spurs, one of the most successful teams in NBA history, have a quote from social reformer Jacob Riis hanging in their locker room: “When nothing seems to help, I go and look at a stonecutter hammering away at his rock, perhaps a hundred times without as much as a crack showing in it. Yet at the hundred and first blow it will split in two, and I know it was not that last blow that did it — but all that had gone before.

Books are more likely to change minds than conversations.

There is too much happening internally during conversation:

Did that sound stupid?<br/>What do they think of me?<br/>Will I lose the friendship over this opinion?

Books can let you chew on an idea without social risk.

It's not that hard on any given day, but the trick is you can't skip days. Your workouts can be reasonable and still deliver results—if you don't skip days. Your writing sessions can be short and the work will still accumulate—if you don't skip days. As long as you're working, you'll get there.