Try to find the right place for yourself. If you can't find it, at least dream of it. - Mary Oliver

It does no good to bark at the television,
I said. I’ve tried it too. So he stopped.

to live in this world

you must be able
to do three things
to love what is mortal;
to hold it

against your bones knowing
your own life depends on it;
and, when the time comes to let it go,
to let it go

and anyway it’s just the same old story — a few people just trying,
one way or another,
to survive.

Mostly, I want to be kind.
And nobody, of course, is kind,
or mean,
for a simple reason.

And nobody gets out of it, having to
swim through the fires to stay in
this world.