Flag football is so much more about strategy. You can't 'take someone out' with your body, so it's more about your mind. - Warren Farrell

Both sexes had an unconscious investment in keeping men from expressing feelings of fear and vulnerability.

Men are likely to be not only the warriors of war but also the warriors of peace. Almost all those who risk their lives, are put in jail, or are killed for peace are men. While some of the peace warriors—Nelson Mandela, Martin Luther King, Gandhi, Dag Hammarskjold—are remembered, most are forgotten. Remember Norm Morrison? After years of protesting the Vietnam war, Norm doused himself with gasoline and set himself on fire on the steps of the Pentagon[…] But Norm Morrison is forgotten.

Becoming a human doing was exactly what society needed. But for an individual man, becoming a human doing was his undoing.