There are four: delaying of gratification, acceptance of responsibility, dedication to truth, and balancing. As will be evident, these are not comple… - M. Scott Peck

"We must be willing to fail and to appreciate the truth that often "Life is not a problem to be solved, but a mystery to be lived.

We are almost always less or more competent than we believe ourselves to be. The unconscious,however, knows who we really are.

I gave examples from my clinical practice of how love was not wholly a thought or feeling. I told of how that very evening there would be some man sitting at a bar in the local village, crying into his beer and sputtering to the bartender how much he loved his wife and children while at the same time he was wasting his family's money and depriving them of his attention. We recounted how this man was thinking love and feeling love — were they not real tears in his eyes? — but he was not in truth behaving with love.