People are either motivated or they are not. Unless you give motivated people something to believe in, something bigger than their job to work toward… - Simon Sinek

In time, as if by magic, we will realize that we have developed a deep bond with this person. The madness and excitement and spontaneity of the dopamine hit is replaced by a more relaxed, more stable, more long-term oxytocin-driven relationship. A vastly more valuable state if we have to rely on someone to help us do things and protect us when we’re weak. My favorite definition of love is giving someone the power to destroy us and trusting they won’t use it.

Ada banyak cara memotivasi orang untuk melakukan berbagai hal, tetapi kesetiaan datang dari kemampuan untuk menginspirasi orang. Hanya ketika MENGAPA itu sangat jelas dan ketika orang memercayai apa yang kita percayailah relasi kesetiaan yang sejati dapat tercipta.

Trust is a biological reaction to the belief that someone has our well-being at heart.