The only way to behave to a woman is to make love to her if she is pretty, and to someone else if she is plain.
Oscar Wilde, Irish poet, playwright, and aesthete (1854–1900)
So she thoroughly taught him that one cannot take pleasure without giving pleasure, and that every gesture, every caress, every touch, every glance, every last bit of the body has its secret, which brings happiness to the person who knows how to wake it. She taught him that after a celebration of love the lovers should not part without admiring each other, without being conquered or having conquered, so that neither is bleak or glutted or has the bad feeling of being used or misused.
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