Renuka Gavrani Quotes

If there is anything that can be crueller than death, it’s nurturing false hope in your heart just to see them crushing every piece of you at the end.

You are beyond a particular tag. You cannot be labeled. Be undefinable. Let them wonder who you are while you create a personality

Learn to define your definition of everything. Don’t make your life a wishlist of what you think everyone has.

If you compromise with your principles once, it will become your habit to cheat your principles and do what’s cool.

If you are the average of the five people you spend the most time with then how will you become an average of yourself if you don’t spend any time with yourself? If you become like the person who you spend the most time with then does that mean you are going away from your real self for you don’t spend any time with yourself?

The first myth that you need to unlearn is to stop believing that you are lonely just because you are alone.

Do not forget yourself in the noise of the world.

This book wouldn’t have been possible without my support. I know it’s a weird acknowledgment because most people credit their success to someone they love the most. Well, the thing is, I love myself the most for standing by myself when I couldn’t find anyone. When no one was there and I was surrounded by self-doubts, uncertainty, and a dark future, I didn’t give up on myself; for that, I want to thank myself. I want to thank myself for fighting hard against my own mind and doubts. I want to thank myself for doing everything it took to transform my dreams into my reality.

« After college, you don’t make friends. You just network. »

Why do you hate the idea of being with yourself so much that ‘the time you spend with yourself is now considered as loneliness'.

And this reminds me that even though we all want to be good and nice, we sympathize more with the villain of any web series or book. WHY? Villains show us that we all can be bad at times, not intentionally but because we are designed to feel all kinds of emotions.

But if I ask you (or you ask anyone around you), what success looks like to you, either you wouldn’t have an answer or you will say ‘Well, I want to make a lot of money, live in a nice luxurious house, give my parents and loved ones a comfortable life, travel across the world and be happy.’ How funny and sad at the same time. If all of us are different then how can our dream life look exactly the same? Because we are clowns.

Books are more interesting than you can imagine. Read books of every genre. If you want to learn to live a better life, read self-help books. If you want to learn how to think better, read great philosophers. If you want to become mentally strong, read spiritual books. If you want to spice up your life, read fantasy. If you want to understand humans, read fiction. Books have it all. Read books and feed your brain. In your free time, or what you call ‘alone time’, take out a book and read at least 5 pages. Allow yourself to drown in the pool of words. Read books on the topics that pique your interest. Read books written by your industry expert and learn what they have learned after spending decades working. Read books written by people who inspire you and make yourself a tiny part of them by consuming their words. Enough of excuses and drama. You have got so much to look forward to. So much to grow and learn. And books are the easiest way to learn and grow in life.

a world where being alone is considered a curse, you should get up and use it to your advantage.

You have to first come home to yourself, feel comfortable with your own company and become interesting for yourself so that you are not waiting or putting yourself on hold for others to adopt you.