Renuka Gavrani Quotes

Don’t let time slip from your hands. Educate yourself, train yourself and most of all have fun with yourself.

In a world where being alone is considered a curse, you should get up and use it to your advantage.

The first myth that you need to unlearn is to stop believing that you are lonely just because you are alone.

You are beyond a particular tag. You cannot be labeled. Be undefinable. Let them wonder who you are while you create a personality

If you cannot figure out who you are, figure out who you are not and who you don’t want to be.

Everyone is already romanticizing their life. They just don’t know the nature of their character yet.

You cannot be lonely if you like the person you’re alone with.

Though, let me give you a warning. As you get to know more things that you are against but the world accepts, never share those things with anyone. Yes, I am asking you to keep your opinions to yourself. Let people think you agree with them. And that’s not because you are a people pleaser or you are afraid to voice your opinion. But because the world is full of clowns. Not everyone has an open mind to accept that differences of opinion can exist. Don’t go out there and scream your perception. Don’t think that people will agree with you. In fact, that’s the reason most people just follow the crowd. They know if they voice their opinions, they will be kicked out. This fear is one of the reasons why most people are followers, not thinkers. Make sure, you don’t make that mistake. Give your opinions only when specifically asked. Otherwise, keep your thoughts inside you. I do it all the time. I know that people are different from me. Their upbringing, educational background, and experiences are different from mine. So, it’s obvious they wouldn’t have similar opinions. I don’t judge them for their opinions and I don’t let anyone judge for mine. And just because your opinions are different doesn’t mean they are superior. Maybe if you stay silent and listen to the other person, you will get to know a new perception.

Why do you hate the idea of being with yourself so much that ‘the time you spend with yourself is now considered as loneliness'.

When I was starting my journey as a writer, I used to watch and read the interviews of famous authors. And one thing was common in all of them. They all said the best ideas come into their mind when they are not looking for them or not doing anything at all. It’s not just the authors but if you ask any creative or artistic person, you will get the same answer. And I always thought that it was impossible until it happened to me.

But if I ask you (or you ask anyone around you), what success looks like to you, either you wouldn’t have an answer or you will say ‘Well, I want to make a lot of money, live in a nice luxurious house, give my parents and loved ones a comfortable life, travel across the world and be happy.’ How funny and sad at the same time. If all of us are different then how can our dream life look exactly the same? Because we are clowns.

« Most people hide their ugly side somewhere deep inside them so that no one can know their dark side. However, what you don’t realize is that the deeper you hide, the darker it gets inside your heart. »

« The more thought you give to what people think of you, the less attention you give to what you want, what you like, what you think, how you would like to enjoy life, and more importantly what makes you, YOU. »

There are some days when you miss yourself more than you have ever missed anyone else.

You have to first come home to yourself, feel comfortable with your own company and become interesting for yourself so that you are not waiting or putting yourself on hold for others to adopt you.