People determine how to treat us in large part by observing how we treat ourselves. The way you speak about yourself affects how people will speak with you. the way you allow yourself to be spoken to reinforces what people think you deserve.

If you're treated a certain way you become a certain kind of person. If certain things are described to you as being real they're real for you whether they're real or not.

If you treat an individual as he is, he will remain how he is. But if you treat him as if he were what he ought to be and could be, he will become what he ought to be and could be.

You teach people how to treat you.

If you want to change the way you feel about people, you have to change the way you treat them.

Treat people as if they were what they ought to be and you help them to become what they are capable of being.

When you realize that people treat you according to how they see themselves rather than how you really are, you are less likely to be affected by their behavior.

Treat a man as he is, and he will remain as he is. Treat a man as he could be, and he will become what he should be.

What you see is what you make. What you see in a people is what you eventually create in them.

Love is how you treat someone.

How they treat you is about who they are, not who you are.

We need to decide how we want to be treated. Then we need to begin treating others in that manner.

How you treat the one reveals how you
regard the many, because everyone is ultimately a one.

How you treat everyone you encounter is the measure of the genuineness of your respect—and the heights you can each as a leader.