The challenge for your son’s grandpa was grandpa’s job going nowhere; the challenge for your son is his job going elsewhere. - Warren Farrell

We often allow that the disproportionate percentage of young black men in prison may reflect our racism, but rarely contemplate whether, since the other half of “black men” is “men,” that it may also reflect our sexism.

Men’s pay paid women to love and nurture, to connect and feel. To be nurturer-connectors. In contrast, men received their pay by being some form of killer-protector. By becoming a human doing (a captain or a coal miner), not a human being (a person who feels happy or sad).

The Japanese boys’ unconscious wisdom is: their dad as winner is really their dad as loser.