Drugs provide pleasure; they cannot provide happiness. For happiness, you need people. - William Glasser

The Seven Deadly Habits of External Control: Blaming, Criticizing, Complaining, Nagging, Threatening, Punishing, and Bribing (Rewarding to Control).

When we depress, we believe we are the victims of a feeling over which we have no control.

Your teen may be weaker, but he is not without the ability to do himself and others a lot of harm by showing you that you can't control him at school or anywhere else when he is out of your sight....[W]hen he is on his own, your only control over him is the strength of your relationship.