Bertrand Russell said that the mark of a civilized human being is the ability to read a column of numbers and then weep. - Martin E P Seligman

Along with this escalation in material expectations has come an escalation in what counts as acceptable in work and in love. our job used to be counted satisfactory if it brought home the bacon. Not so today. It must also be meaningful. There must be room to move up. It must provide for a comfortable retirement. Coworkers must be congenial and the endeavor ecologically sound.

Marriage also now requires more than it used to. It's no longer just a matter of raising children. Our mate must be eternally sexy, and thin, and interesting to talk to, and good at tennis.. these inflated expectations are rooted in the expansion of choice.

Enesekesksus on omane nukrusele, mitte heaolutundele.

While you can't control your experiences, you can control your explanations.