There are no perfect relationships. There are no perfect partners. Relationships by their very nature are chaotic, eventful, and challenging. - Robert A. Glover

"Surrender allows recovering Nice Guys to see each life experience as a "gift" from the universe to stimulate growth, healing and learning. Instead of asking, "Why is this happening to me?" the recovering Nice Guy can respond to life's challenges by pondering, "What do I need to learn from this situation?

Toxic shame is the belief that one is inherently bad, defective, different, or unlovable. Toxic shame is not just a belief that one does bad things, it is a deeply held core belief that one is bad.

By trying to please everyone, Nice Guys often end up pleasing no one — including themselves. Seeking