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I'm so misunderstood that people misunderstand me even when I tell them I'm misunderstood.

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If I do not speak in a language that can be understood there is little chance for a dialogue.

If I let myself really understand another person, I might be changed by that understanding. And we all fear change. So, as I say, it is not an easy thing to permit oneself to understand an individual.

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If you can't make yourself understood by your friends, you'll be in trouble when your enemies come for you.

When someone expresses some feeling or attitude or belief, our tendency is, almost immediately, to feel “That’s right”; or “That’s stupid”; “That’s abnormal”; “That’s unreasonable”; “That’s incorrect”; “That’s not nice.” Very rarely do we permit ourselves to understand precisely what the meaning of his statement is to him. I believe this is because understanding is risky. If I let myself really understand another person, I might be changed by that understanding. And we all fear change. So as I say, it is not an easy thing to permit oneself to understand an individual, to enter thoroughly and completely and empathically into his frame of reference. It is also a rare thing.

If you ever hear yourself saying, 'I think I understand this,' that means you don't.

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