Because children grow up, we think a child's purpose is to grow up," Herzen says. "But a child's purpose is to be a child. Nature doesn't disdain wha… - Oliver Burkeman

Or perhaps you've tethered your self-esteem to the most crazy-making standard of all, 'realizing your potential' – which means you'll never get to rest, because how can you ever be sure there's not a little more potential left to realize?

Who says you need to wait until you 'feel like' doing something in order to start doing it? The problem, from this perspective, isn't that you don't feel motivated; it's that you imagine you need to feel motivated. If you can regard your thoughts and emotions about whatever you're procrastinating on as passing weather, you'll realise that your reluctance about working isn't something that needs to be eradicated or transformed into positivity. You can coexist with it. You can note the procrastinatory feelings and act anyway.

The greatest benefit of negative capability — the true power of negative thinking — is that it lets the mystery back in.