skill and competence are far more important than friendly feelings. - Robert Greene

we tend to think of our behavior as largely conscious and willed. To imagine that we are not always in control of what we do is a frightening thought, but in fact it is the reality.

We are all self-absorbed, locked in our own worlds. It is a therapeutic and liberating experience to be drawn outside ourselves and into the world of another.

Do not waste time on things you cannot change or influence.

Just keep moving.