How you judge other people. What you first reach to insult someone with — especially when it’s physical — says infinitely more of you than them.

What, for instance, does it mean to be insulted? [29] Stand by a rock and insult it, and what have you accomplished? If someone responds to insult like a rock, what has the abuser gained with his invective? If, however, he has his victim’s weakness to exploit, then his efforts are worth his while.

Quien ofende a Dios, se daña a sí mismo y daña al prójimo Quiero hacerte saber cómo toda virtud y todo defecto repercuten en el prójimo. Quien vive en odio y enemistad conmigo, no sólo se daña a sí mismo, sino que daña a su prójimo. Le causa daño porque estáis obligados a amar al prójimo como a vosotros mismos, ya sea ayudándole espiritualmente con la oración, aconsejándole de palabra o socorriéndole espiritual y materialmente, según sea su necesidad. Quien no me ama a mí, no ama al prójimo; al no amarlo, no lo socorre. Se daña a sí mismo, privándose de la gracia, y causa daño al prójimo, porque toda ayuda que le ofrezca no puede provenir más que del afecto que le tiene por amor a mí. No hay pecado que no alcance al prójimo. Al no amarme a mí, tampoco lo quiere a él.

He who is affected by an insult is infected by it.

Remember that it is we who torment, we who make difficulties for ourselves – that is, our opinions do. What, for instance, does it mean to be insulted? Stand by a rock and insult it, and what have you accomplished? If someone responds to insult like a rock, what has the abuser gained with his invective?

Si alguien te hiciere saber que un inviduo habla mal de ti, no te defiendas, ni refutes lo que haya dicho, sino que responde: «Aquel que ha dicho aquello de mí, ignora sin duda otros defectos, de lo contrario no habría dicho sólo estos.»

It’s never an insult to be called what somebody thinks is a bad name. It just shows you how poor that person is, it doesn’t hurt you.

Remember, it is not enough to be hit or insulted to be harmed, you must believe that you are being harmed. If someone succeeds in provoking you, realize that your mind is complicit in the provocation. Which is why it is essential that we not respond impulsively to impressions; take a moment before reacting, and you will find it is easier to maintain control.

Remember, it is not enough to be hit or insulted to be harmed, you must believe that you are being harmed. If someone succeeds in provoking you, realize that your mind is complicit in the provocation. Which is why it is essential that we not respond impulsively to impressions; take a moment before reacting, and you will find it easier to maintain control.

Pocas personas tienen el carácter necesario para preferir el comentario adverso que les puede ser útil a la alabanza fácil que las perjudica

Insulting people does not work if your objective is to persuade them. When a person is insulted, they become even more dogmatic in holding their incorrect belief. If you are going to say that the Lord called you to go into politics, then you need to act like it. If you are not going to act like it, then you need to take His name out of the equation.

Whenever someone helps or hinders you, or praises or criticizes you, remember that they see you only through the lens of their own impressions. If they act or speak from a warped perspective, they hurt themselves — not you. For if someone mistakes truth for falsehood, the truth is not harmed, but only the person deceived. Keeping this in mind, gently turn away any insult or injury. “It seems right to them, though they are mistaken.

But such meanness can incite you to achieve great things. I take insults - insults to my physical being, to my mental being, to my pride - very deeply. I can't shake them off! I bear these insults to my sense of fair play and justice to this day. It's almost an inextinguishable flame, which is why I make a very bad enemy. I just felt "I want to show you. I will show you." From early on, I developed this strong anger which, in many ways, propelled me forward in life.

To deliberately criticise another individual may cause an indelible stain on the critic.