Jean de La Bruyère Quotes

Out of difficulties, grow miracles

We come too late to say anything which has not been said already.

The heroic virtues of some great men have been the cause of the corruption of eloquence, or have, at least, enervated the style of most preachers. Instead of joining with the people in rendering thanks to Heaven for the extraordinary gifts it has bestowed on those great men, these very preachers have enrolled themselves among authors and poets, and become panegyrists ; they have even uttered more extravagant praises than are found in dedications, verses, or prologues ; they have turned the Word of God into a whole warp of praises, which, though well deserved, are out of place, bestowed from selfish motives, not required, and ill-suited to their calling. It is fortunate indeed, if, while they are celebrating their heroes in the sanctuary, they even mention the name of that God or of that religion they ought to preach. Some have wished to preach the Gospel, which is for all men, only to one person, and have been so disconcerted when by accident that person was kept away, that they were unable to pronounce a Christian discourse before an assembly of Christian men, because it was not prepared for them, so that other orators have been obliged to take their places, who had only sufficient leisure to praise God in an extemporary exhortation.!

A man in health questions whether there is a God, and he also doubts whether it be a sin to have intercourse with a woman, who is at liberty to refuse; but when he falls ill, or when his mistress is with child, she is discarded, and he believes in God.

Le temps, qui fortifie les amitiés, affaiblit l'amour.

Les femmes sont extrêmes: elles sont meilleures ou pires que les hommes.

La ville est partagée en diverses sociétés, qui sont comme autant de petites républiques, qui ont leurs lois, leurs usages, leur jargon, et leurs mots pour rire. Tant que cet assemblage est dans sa force, et que l'entêtement subsiste, l'on ne trouve rien de bien dit ou de bien fait que ce qui part des siens, et l'on est incapable de goûter ce qui vient d'ailleurs: cela va jusques au mépris pour les gens qui ne sont pas initiés dans leurs mystères.

La plupart des hommes emploient la meilleure partie de leur vie à rendre l'autre misérable.

If some persons died and others did not die death would indeed be a terrible affliction.

L'on n'aime bien qu'une seule fois : c'est la première. Les amours qui suivent sont moins involontaires.

All the intelligence in the world is useless to the one who has none.

We can recognize the dawn and the decline of love by the uneasiness we feel when alone together.

Tout l'esprit qui est au monde est inutile à celui qui n'en a point : il n'a nulles vues, et il est incapable de profiter de celles d'autrui.

«Тот, кто любит так сильно, что хотел бы любить в тысячу раз сильнее, всё же любит меньше, нежели тот, кто любит сильнее, чем сам того хотел бы.»

Жан де Лабрюйер «Характеры или нравы нынешнего века»

Menippus is a bird decked in various feathers which are not his. He neither says nor feels anything, but repeats the feelings and sayings of others; it is so natural for him to make use of other people’s minds that he is the first deceived by it, and often believes he speaks his own mind or expresses his own thoughts when he is but the echo of some man he just parted with.