"In this way, "knowing yourself" or "finding yourself" can be dangerous. It can cement you into a strict role and saddle you with unnecessary expectations. It can close you off to inner potential and outer opportunities.
I say don't find yourself. I say never know who you are. Because that's what keeps you striving and discovering. And it forces you to remain humble in your judgments and accepting of the differences in others."

As noted before, we’re unfairly biased toward what we already know, what we believe to be certain. If I believe I’m a nice guy, I will avoid situations that could potentially contradict that belief. If I believe I’m an awesome cook, I’ll seek out opportunities to prove that to myself over and over again. The belief always takes precedence. Until we change how we view ourselves, what we believe we are and are not, we cannot overcome our avoidance and anxiety. We cannot change.
In this way, “knowing yourself” or “finding yourself” can be dangerous. It can cement you into a strict role and saddle you with unnecessary expectations. It can close you off to inner potential and outer opportunities.
I say don’t find yourself. I say never know who you are. Because that’s what keeps you striving and discovering. And it forces you to remain humble in your judgements and accepting of the differences in others.

If you cannot figure out who you are, figure out who you are not and who you don’t want to be.

If you don't know who you truly are, you'll never know what you really want.

People often say that this or that person has not yet found himself. But the self is not something one finds; it is something one creates.

If you are never alone, you cannot know yourself.

Let me forever go in search of myself; never for a moment think that I have found myself; be as a stranger to myself, never a familiar, seeking acquaintance still. May I be to myself as one is to me whom I love, a dear and cherished object.

You never find yourself until you face the truth.

one can never know oneself but only narrate oneself

It's impossible to discover who you really are if you limit what you are willing to find out about yourself to only what you want to know.

To know yourself is to forget yourself.

Never let anyone define who you are.

I cannot know who I am, because I don't know which part of me is not me.

The fear of finding oneself alone – that is what they suffer from – and so they don’t find themselves at all.