Americans' biggest "investments" are their houses, but real estate is also the place where Americans lose the most money. Real estate agents (and most homeowners) are not going to like me after this section, but in truth, real estate is the most overrated investment in America. It's a purchase first — a very expensive one — and an investment second.

If you use generic phrases like "feeling motivated" and "I'm going to buckle down," I can tell you you're already going to fail. And after failing multiple times, you'll start to see yourself as a "person who fails." In other words, you start to believe, "I'm not the kind of person who can succeed in business.

He created a "Top 50 Favorites" list of contacts on his phone. He prioritizes them when it comes to hanging out. When he has a free minute, he calls/texts the people on his Top 50 list. Then he told us, at the end of the year, he re-evaluates who should be on the list and shuffles/deletes/adds to it. It can only be 50 people, so every year, he makes the tough decisions as to who's in his Top 50. People DID NOT LIKE THIS.

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My friend Jim once called to tell me that he'd gotten a raise at work. On the same day, he moved into a smaller apartment. Why? Because he doesn't care very much about where he lives, but he loves spending money on camping and biking. That's called conscious spending.

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